Olivia was joy in human form. She loved life and all her people. She worried about friends with hurt feelings and she wrote notes to brighten everyone’s day. She was fun-loving, spunky and laughed easily. She loved rainbows, unicorns, mermaids and dresses as much as wrestling with her brother and playing tackle football with her dad.
On January 17, 2022, we heard the phrase every parent fears, “your daughter has Leukemia”. Her case was extremely rare – “Your daughter is the 1%”, the doctors said. Three days after Olivia’s diagnosis, cancer took her away. It was swift and brutal.
Our world was turned upside down. Olivia left such a big hole that it seemed impossible to dig out of – that is, until we started finding encouraging and loving handwritten notes, texts messages, and numerous hilarious videos she created. She was such a positive force that we needed to share what a bright light she was with the world.
Finding adequate grief support that met the needs of our family was a challenge, to say the least. Hearing our son express the simple, yet profound desire to “feel understood,” only added to the complexity. We encountered lengthy wait lists, seasonal programs, and a scarcity of grief resources within our community and so, we started the Olivia Chan Foundation to help others in their time of grief, to honor those we’ve lost and to assist families in their journey toward healing that last a lifetime.